TOPIC OF DISCUSSION AND COMMENTS
of our young ones (Marriage age) Boys & Girls
We are doing nothing to this group and there for our
Youngsters are marrying outside community.
(Don't keep a blind eye on this issue)
This is for all the Mandals + JO as well.
Jansari - Leicester
above comment was received with the database form and website questionnaire.
The comments raised are valid and we need to address the issue.
It is also appropriate the issue is discussed as we are in the wedding
case you are not aware SEVAK was the first Jansari to hold a matrimonial
gathering on 10 December 1995. Soon after the gathering a report
was published in the Jansari Newsletter Issue No 5 March 1996. We
also took the initiative to start the register and gave a further
report in Issue 6 May 1996.
gathered the information from interested parties we passed the details
over to Mr Ashok Chudasama who acted as the Public Relations Officer
of Jansari Organisations UK as we felt that the initiative should
be taken up by our National organisation. He never made contact
with us and took it upon himself to deal with the issue. Unfortunately
nothing further happened apart from updates in the Newsletters issues
10 April 1998, 11 August 1998 12 February 1999 and 13 September
give your views on the following questions
there a need for Matrimonial gatherings given that that a vast
majority of our youngsters are now capable of finding their life
partners whom they meet at university or their social circle.
In any given year no more than 10 weddings take place in a year.
If in total 20 community members are in the market for marriage
is there in any justification for a matrimonial gathering.
Who is prepared to pay for hosting these gatherings. Will every
community member in the market for marriage make a voluntary/agreed
contribution towards the cost of organising the gathering. No
doubt the parents and family members may attend as well.
What is an acceptable level of voluntary/ agreed contribution.
There would be a need for at least two gatherings annually. Say
in March and October. One in London and the other in the Midlands.
Who would you entrust to organise the gatherings.
Will the community give their whole-hearted support.
For every wedding that takes place would it be fair that the two
parties make a voluntary contribution of £25 towards the
cost of future gatherings.
not forget to read the articles on Marriages in the section Children
let us have your comments views as they are important to us and
to all those who will read them. That way changes are required can
be taken on board.